Community“If you want lasting change, you have to give up this idea of just trying something, and you have to commit yourself to mastery. That means not just “dabbling,” but fully immersing yourself. Because your life is not controlled by what you do some of the time, but by what you do consistently.”
~ Tony Robbins
Immerse Yourself!
Want to build deeper intimacy with your partner?
Want support to deal with the stress and anxiety our world seems to run on?
Want help growing a spiritual life that’s honest and real?
Want to strengthen your capacity to resist the distractions and temptations in today’s overly sexualized world?
Ready to live with vitality and integrity?
Boot Camp is For You!
Let’s face it: these are challenging times for men. Many are stressed out, with busy lives and growing worries. Many are dealing with disappointment and discouragement because of the lack of intimacy in their marriage. Many struggle with unspoken doubts and disillusionment about their faith. And while this is happening, two things are making it worse:
- the increasing isolation and loneliness that men experience today
- the explosion of erotic content on TV, the Internet, Social Media, and smart phones, which is functioning like a cancer in the intimate life, spiritual life, mental health, and vitality of men.
Today’s World Offers Unprecedented Distraction and Arousal.
Our information technologies and media benefit our lives in countless ways … but they also create problems: They give access to sexual stimulation and gratification to anyone, anywhere, anytime, for free. This 24/7 access to unlimited varieties of sexual stimulation hijacks our natural instincts, and creates an unprecedented level of challenge and struggle for men … and marriages.
The Renewed Man Boot Camp offers a time-tested, practical strategy to regain power over out-of-control habits.
What You Will Gain From This Boot Camp
This Boot Camp lasts 12 weeks, and is intended to help bring about a change of lifestyle. This is a life-long process … but a lot can happen in 12 weeks! Here is what the program promises — our four-fold promise:
Sexual Self-Mastery
Benefit from a significant breakthrough in your recovery from whatever compulsive habit / addictive behavior you’re currently struggling with
Increased Energy and Sharper Focus
Watch your energy and focus improve, especially in the face of stress and anxiety
Spiritual Renewal and Vitality
Experience a significant spiritual renewal and increased sense of vitality
Deeper and More Satisfying Intimacy
Discover and enjoy true intimacy — emotionally and sexually — with your partner
What Guys Are Saying About Boot Camp
Before we launched this Boot Camp, we ran a “pilot group” to test it. In an anonymous survey, we asked men to give their feedback: 40% of the men said it provided “good” or “great” value to them … 60% said it provided “amazing” value! Here’s some of their comments:
Comprehensive nature, coupled with accountability
“The Boot Camp was none like I had ever done before. I thought I was signing up for help just with sexual struggles, but I was blown away by the holistic healing and growth the program offers for men on many levels with various struggles. The comprehensive nature, coupled with an accountability format and easy to follow content, truly helped me to live with improved intimacy, increased masculine vitality, and sexual integrity. I am now better equipped to be the renewed man (husband & father) I was called to be thanks to Boot Camp!”
It’s a more complex struggle
“The Renewed Man Boot Camp helped me to see that to have long lasting results in the struggle for sexual integrity, you can’t just focus on a few areas of “recovery” and have success. Boot Camp helped me see how it’s a more complex struggle that involves multiple issues, and each of them need to be addressed.”
I could go could go at my own pace
“The content of the boot camp was really good. I enjoyed the online format because I could go could go at my own pace.”
Mark’s group coaching calls have been the best
“I have been in a lot of programs for my work that have involved group conference calls and group coaching, but Mark’s group coaching calls have been the best, and most professionally facilitated groups I’ve been a part of.”
It is great to talk with other guys in the same boat
“Boot Camp has been invaluable to me. Although I still struggle with this issue, the calls keep me on a relatively steady path. In other words, without them who knows where I’d be! It is great to talk with other guys in the same boat, and to realize that I’m not alone in my struggles. Mark is superb at facilitating the weekly coaching calls and I’m very grateful.”
Open to God’s grace
“Boot camp was beneficial in reminding me of wisdom I have known, but forgotten, or was maybe running from, because of the illusion and comfort of thinking “I’ve got this under control.” The different perspectives presented make it hard for anyone to NOT see their blind spots and be open to God’s grace, even in areas were you were “confident” you didn’t need it. It was also revealing to learn how harmful our “escaping habits” are to ourselves and our relationships with others.”
A note about anonymity and veracity of these testimonials: Since these were anonymous surveys, we’re using pseudonyms. If you wonder whether these are actual quotes from real participants, you’re welcome to get in touch with us, and we’ll verify that these are original statements from group members.
Who is This For?
- Men who want help and support to be the best man they can be
- Men who recognize the challenge of maintaining healthy boundaries around today’s digital temptations
- Men who struggle to control their behavior around pornography, or other sexual content or behaviors … whether this as a diagnosable addiction or simply a periodic challenge
- Men who are unhappy with the sex life they have with their partner
- Men who are willing to talk about this area of their lives — in a safe and supportive environment
- Men who will take this seriously and do the work
- Men who would be willing — if they find this program helpful — to share it with others and help other men through it in the future
Boot Camp aims to RENEW the life, strength, and vitality of men by helping them overcome the distraction and enslavement they are experiencing with sexual habits like porn use, and surfing social media, cable TV, and Internet sites for erotic material. It will also help them find ways to strengthen the relationships they are in.
Wait ... So is This for Mostly Just for Guys Who Have a Problem with Porn, or Sex Addiction?
No. It’s for guys who want help with any of the four questions raised at the top of this page. Even though it talks a lot about dealing with our sexual desires, it’s about much more than that. It’s holistic. It’s about becoming a better man … emotionally, spiritually, relationally, and physically. This is a broad-focused program, as there are many dimensions that affect — and are affected by — our sexuality.
How does Boot Camp work?
There are three aspects to the Boot Camp. Each helps you in a different way, and they all work together:
DAILY ACTION STEP
One core element of Boot Camp is that it will help you to make a DAILY CONNECTION to your commitment, and will guide you to take a simple, small, daily action step that will help you move forward. To that end, you’ll get a short email each day, which is a synopsis of, and has a link to, an article-length teaching for that day, and an action step to take.
WEEKLY TEACHING ABOUT THE KEYS TO RENEWAL, INTIMACY, AND SEXUAL SELF-MASTERY
You’ll get a weekly overview of the material. There will be an article-length overview of that week’s “key to recovery and sexual self-mastery.” This teaching will come in written form, as well as a video. Along with this, you’ll have access to the full teaching of each day’s article and action step.
WEEKLY COACHING IN A SMALL GROUP
The heart of Boot Camp is belonging to your troop — group sessions with Mark Brouwer — four times a month. In these sessions, you can ask whatever questions you want about the content of the teaching — or anything else that you want. If you’re not able to be there live, you’ll be encouraged to check in and submit any comment or question you have via email.
What's The Cost?
Your Investment is $350
This is the average price in the USA for just TWO sessions of therapy. In this case, you get three months of daily teaching, twelve video teaching segments, and twelve small group sessions with expert coaching.
Put another way, for the cost of just two hours of psychotherapy, you will get:
- 3 months of daily teaching and guidance — $100 value
- 12 video instruction sessions — $120 value
- 12 group coaching sessions, led by Mark Brouwer — $600 value ($50 per session)
- Free month of Covenant Eyes Internet filtering software (optional) — $17 value
TOTAL VALUE — $837!
What if I Don't Like it? Can I Get my Money Back?
We are so convinced of the power of this Boot Camp that we offer you a two-part money back guarantee:
FIRST — Try is risk-free for one week, so you see what it’s like. If, after you see what you are getting, you decide it’s not for you, let us know and we’ll refund your money, no questions asked.
SECOND — If you go through the Boot Camp — and fully participate in it — and find that it did not deliver on its promise to offer significant help in the four areas outlined above … we will also refund your money.